My daughter and I don't get along, she punishes me by not letting me see the grandkids.What should I do?

Well honestly all wives/husbands always tell their partner/spouse what their parent thinks of them. So if she is involving you in their squabbles.. and you say bad stuff about him, then he is going to get upset and not want you around. have you ever seen him be mean to her and the kids? or is that just what you hear from your daughter? All squabbles and fights have two stories... do you know what she does? I wouldn't want you to see my kids either if you were telling me horrible things about my husband. She is married to him and obviously not getting a divorce b/c she is happy with him and loves him very much. I don't understand the he is possessed on sunday part... i have no idea what your talking about. But I would tell her if she calls that these are her problems and she needs to stop coming to you for advice b/c you are not being fair and listening to both sides and you are uming everything is his fault. I talk to my mother about my fights with my husband... and i always leave out what i did to upset him and what i said to him to make him mad... then she would probably definitely take his side b/c i am very witchy sometimes and i'm pregnant and very hormonal... so i like to think i'm always right no matter what. So I would find out more before you start judging your son in law.