Is it ok to go for a kiss on the 2nd date? And if so, what kind?

First of all, I disagree completely with amt2be. I'm a 24 year old girl and I would kind of be turned off if a guy kissed me on the first date, unless I really really felt a connection with him. But for me, it takes time to feel a connection and the kiss is not meaningful if you are doing it just because you feel like you should. Kiss her if you really like her and if you think she really likes you back, because only then will it be special. And start slow (just a peck on the lips the first time!) Good luck!